Living the LYLU-Mindset™
How to Link Yourself and Level Up Every Day
In the first two parts of this blog series, we explored the origins of LYLU-Mindset™ and the deeper meaning behind the philosophy of Link Yourself, Level Up. Now, let’s talk about how to truly live this mindset in your everyday life. Whether you're facing challenges, pursuing goals, or simply trying to improve a little each day, adopting the LYLU-Mindset™ can make all the difference.
1. Start With Self-Reflection
To link yourself, you first need to understand who you are and what drives you. This starts with self-reflection—taking the time to pause and consider what matters most to you. What are your values? What are your strengths? What are the areas where you want to grow?
Faith plays a big role in this for me. For those who share a belief in Jesus, prayer and reflection on His teachings help guide this process. But no matter where you draw your inspiration from, linking yourself to something bigger than your day-to-day life helps you stay grounded and focused.
A simple way to start this reflection is to set aside time each day to ask yourself, “Am I aligning my actions with my purpose?” By regularly evaluating where you stand, you can make sure that you’re staying connected to what truly matters.
2. Embrace the Growth Mindset
Once you’re connected to your purpose, the next step is to level up—and that means embracing a growth mindset. A growth mindset is the belief that you can improve and develop through effort, learning, and perseverance. It’s about recognizing that challenges aren’t setbacks, but opportunities to grow.
Whenever you face an obstacle, try asking yourself, “How can I grow from this?” Instead of being discouraged by failure, see it as a stepping stone toward success. This is a key aspect of leveling up—understanding that every experience, even the difficult ones, can push you toward becoming a better version of yourself.
Remember, leveling up doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a gradual process of improvement, learning from each experience, and making intentional decisions to move forward, even when it’s tough.
3. Surround Yourself With Positive Influences
The Link Yourself part of the mindset also applies to the people you surround yourself with. Who we choose to spend time with can either lift us up or hold us back. It’s crucial to link yourself to positive, supportive influences—whether it’s friends, family, mentors, or a community that shares your values.
The Me&You-Mindset ties in perfectly here. As much as individual growth is important, we’re not meant to go through life alone. Surrounding yourself with people who encourage your growth, who challenge you to be better, and who offer support during tough times is essential to living out the LYLU philosophy.
Make sure to invest in relationships that foster growth, and in return, be that same source of support for others. The power of community is one of the most valuable tools you have in your journey to level up.
4. Set Goals With Purpose
Another practical way to live the LYLU-Mindset™ is by setting purposeful goals. It’s not enough to just want to grow—you need to be intentional about how you plan to get there.
When setting goals, ask yourself:
How does this align with my purpose?
What steps can I take today to move closer to this goal?
How can I rely on my faith or my community to support me in achieving this?
Breaking your goals down into smaller, achievable steps makes them more manageable and helps keep you motivated. And remember, goals should always reflect the deeper values you’ve linked yourself to—whether it’s growing in faith, advancing in your career, or improving personal well-being.
5. Stay Consistent and Trust the Process
Consistency is key to leveling up. Small, daily actions often lead to the biggest transformations over time. Even when the results aren’t immediate, trust the process and stay committed to your journey.
Faith plays a significant role here as well. When you trust in God’s plan, you understand that the timing of things is beyond your control. It’s about being patient, staying dedicated, and believing that each step forward, no matter how small, is bringing you closer to the person you’re meant to become.
Through faith and persistence, growth will happen—even when you can’t see it right away.
6. Celebrate the Wins, Big and Small
Lastly, don’t forget to celebrate your progress. Living the LYLU-Mindset™ means recognizing how far you’ve come and celebrating each step along the way. It’s easy to get caught up in what’s next, but it’s important to pause and acknowledge your achievements—big or small.
Whether it’s reaching a new milestone, overcoming a challenge, or simply staying committed to your goals, take a moment to give yourself credit for leveling up. Gratitude and self-recognition are vital in sustaining your momentum and continuing your growth journey.
A Mindset for Life
The LYLU-Mindset™ is not just something you adopt once and forget—it’s a way of life. It’s about constantly linking yourself to your purpose, your faith, and the people who matter most, while also striving to level up in every aspect of your life.
By living this mindset, you’re committing to a journey of continuous growth. And as you do, remember that you’re not walking this path alone. Whether it’s through faith, community, or simply the inspiration you find in others, you’re always supported.
So, as you move forward, I encourage you to take the LYLU-Mindset™ with you every day. Link yourself, level up, and see just how far you can go.
